If u guys read my journal lately about my house..that my aunty wants to live (freely) this is the next episode... lol (tryin' to laugh again)

well, i stand on my tought i made up my mind and told my dad and mom that i won't let anyone stay there for free. Then i gave my money (that i wanted to spend out for my trip) to him... and told him to spend it whatever he wanted to. He might give to my aunty if he wants but i won't give my money to her anymore. As i told u guys i give the money when i prefer to give, i really don't like this way. when ppl ask me for the money that way i won't give them (kinda psycho) My aunty and her family might think i'm a ***** but i don't give a sh*t about that. If my dad wanna help her, i let him does it. Hope the money that i give to my dad is enough for her to stop complaining.

Anyway, this story is not over yet and another one came along. My dad told me about my cousin who is older than me so much, he younger than my dad not much. my daddy is 57 years old and he is 47. He is an Alcoholic. My aunty (his mom) tried to keep him in the temple to solve the problem. So he became a monk..but it didn't work.. Now he staying with his mom and his step dad. It's not good to has him around. kinda annoying, even his mom can't stand him.

In the Monday morning, he grabbed my daddy's hand and said "I will die real soon, don't u care? Can u give me some money?" My dad said "I don't have any money to give u" he said "why not? i heard u bought a million baht house, so why did u tell me u didn't have money to give?" My dad told him that he didn't has any house (sure it's my house, he didn't tell the lie, lol) and he gotta run to did his business... end of the conversation ...lol

Well, why ppl think that way, i'm not Rich Don't they know when ppl bought something they will lose some money? that's very common. I have a house I have a car and i'm studying. I spent out my money in my bank account for them. So i don't have much money, don't they understand??? hrrrrrrrrrrrr.

If they want money that much, make it by their own... JUST WORK!! my dad and mom are retired age but they still work. They have their own business...so i think it's be shameful for the person who is in the working age such as my cousin beg for the money from them..da** it!!

take it easy na p1.

Yeah I know...you buy a house and get broke (almost :-)) ...but honestly Neung, I think you are right about drawing a line in the sand...or you'll never get peace!

..::Nr 1... You are real rich...who has money give away is the real richer for me (no matter how much). How could you do that.. ? full time working, own house, car and master degree student.. at just early errr... 30's **applaud**

By the way, may i borrow you 5,000b i really neccessary to have it and i promise that i will return you once to get paid. :-)

It's stupid how some Thai people are. I am not from a rich family as well and I must admit that I've seen quite similar scene in my family.

In the culture where every family member depends on each other, sometimes sutpid thing like this can happen. Or I might say it happens quite often in middle class down to lower class. As I have suggested last time, I don't believe there's any better way to handle this but try to stick to ur family and urself. We can't save the world.

All the best for u, P' 1.

Your relatives knew that you live in a comfortable life I think they take a chance whatever they could. Its good to share but you have to be straightforward and let them know its a hard earned money. Also, its not your responsibility nor your parents for the vices of your cousin.

You can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family... so can I borrow your car while you're in Phuket? :-)

b'coz they never have anything coz they are poor.. or/and lazy? So they think ppl who have got something are rich?

I feel sorry for ppl in their 30-40 and still cant find anything in their lifes.. thats sad and suck!