i don't understand with the profile which show the option 'not looking' if you reading the hole profille, you may perceive it means that they are looking for ...... (i don't know) it's not my biz but confuse me! 

Welcome to TF world!

just join for something good, fun,sharing...but what looking for mean?? looking for what?? and why have to looking for....?? just enjoy to join this site.....don't be too serious girl..

...because some just prefer to be left in peace...and maybe they had to many stalkers... :-)