well it s seems to be not a very good year for me... it has been a while that i didnt check tf,,busy with my work and also with my small gym..after a very bad episode(read past journals) i have alone for  few months..then i went to my best friend wedding last august..i know here since 14 years,,was a bit weird coz we ve been dating for a year..long time ago...anyway i was there at the same table ,,7 girls hihihihbut no one really attracted me(and the one who attracted me in fact was married already)then i talked with best friend online and she asked if i liked any of her gf in this group..i said i don tknow them so i can t tell ..she just make a profile of all ,,and suddenly she said one is online and asked if i wanted to chat with herand it was great,,an interesting personality,,can talk about any topic,,smart...so we talked like everyday hours and hours,,on the phone or online..then we met again,,so many things in common thats we ened to become bf and gf,,the good things is the she didnt attracted me at first..physicaly,,and it was the same case for her..so i decided to come to see her every week end(saturdays,,i changed my schedule at gym for that)..it was ok until i met the parents,,i was invited to meet the family in a restaurant,,as i cna speak thai very well,,i was looking for to talk with them,,but they didn t even look at me,,just wai me back when i wai them,,just her sister asked me questionand then they asked my gf to break with me ..2 reasons I M FARANG(i hate this word by the way)  second reason I M NOT RICH..very good reasons indeed they said something like all farang divorce one day ahemm..and my slaray is not enough we ll have a poor and difficult life,,she got a very good job and same salary as i got,,how come we ll have a difficult life..oh yes maybe not a villa with pool and jacuzzi,,that s a so sad life,,,,she has to obey she said,,she s 28 and she can t decide by herself what it s good for her life or not..she wanted to keep going,,but in secret...but i wasn t agree with this idea,,,they dont even know me and they judge me just on color of my skin and my bank account,,,how cool is it..,,freedom has no price...so i m rich in a way,,,more rich than this kind of narrow minded people,,,only 2 types of girls in thailand(i try to be narrow minded too lol) ba farang and impossible to catch coz of social status or parents racist...to respect and to love is not to fear,,,

It's the old story of boy meets girl.

Boy not rich enough, so girl fcuk's him off......

Sad. Very sad indeed.......

Clash of civilizations.....agree ...saad..sorry for you ....

Its her loss as she might end up with someone that wont treat her well that well . Be happy and try to enjoy the time you are alone .

Are you an English teacher?

Mixed marriages are still looked down upon with traditional asian customs and culture........you win some and lose some, it just depends on the individual and their family, whether to accept you or not?

NO NO Beej!!

Fred is a Martial Artist and struggling movie star.

I met him once and like him as much or more than Zeus.

In this life we are only limited by time, money, imagination and people who dislike us for no rational reason because we are good people... Maybe a few other things, too, but they don't come to mind now.

Good luck, Fred. There's someone out there who is better for you and is waiting to meet you.

There are a lot of great girls in Thailand, so find someone new.

If at 28 she hasn't already broken free of the narrow-minded racism that is part of her family, it is unlikely that she ever really will. And so this family will only make your life miserable.

When things get difficult, as they do at times in almost all relationships, you can count on her family trying to break you up. And family ties in Thailand are very strong.

So forget about proving you really love her. You will only set yourself up for more heartache. Find someone who proves how much they love you too.

I agree with Loburt this time. Funny that. Fred, corner this girl to tell you, or find someone else who will tell you.... "I love you and I will marry youi NO MATTER WHAT!" (where have I heard that line, i wonder?)

If she doesn't love you enough to stand up for herself and tell people who judge you by your race and your bank account to go stuff it, you shouldn't believe she's the one for you.

Running the marathon is a challenge.

Marrying into this situation would be misguided and a mistake you will pay for for years.

Ignorant racists are ignorant racists. You won't change them.

i hate it ihate it i hate it... but i agree with the Lobutt. anythin serious is seriously out. if she cared she'd keep comin and f**k what the family says.

but if you can get a little secret slippery stuff on the side, what's the harm in that? she's adjusted her goalposts, why cain't u? love that thing just don't fall into it. and nothin here will keep you from continueing to look for true love. *it's lots easier to find love when you smell like it* copyright Steevolution2007

thanks for all the comments,,,i appreciate it