Note to self: Never write love letter to member of TF if you want it to be a personal issue.

He's not a TFer! duh~

I can't stop laughing!

it's creepy actually...

I gotta copy this

I didn't ask his consent at all... I find it's unbelieveable.. the purpose that I post it here is I want to know how other think after read this.

*repeat* He's non TF member and I didn't post his name even though you guy will never know him anyway. For **** sake, only two guys left comment here and they saying the same. If he's a TF member or someone you might know then I won't post this. Do you think I have no brain to think what I should/could do?

Do you think this is normal? Do you think this coulkd be a copy-paste message? Do you think someone who wrote thing like this is ok? That's what I want to hear...

babyoiy: "it's creepy actually..."

Especially the last sentence. Take special note of the last six words. That's the sort of thing borderline people write. I'm probably wrong (I hope) but be careful anyway. Cheers.

laughing is ok... but barfing? first choice.

Man, can i get some of the drugs he's on? He's properly fkd in the head.

Vbroker: You're close to my point.... I really wonder what's wrong with him, however thanks for your concern but as long as I stay here I'm safe. I almost fly to see him but luckily I didn't. He's an EX but I feel sad and never understand why he have to live life with all imagine, this is only a part of all he wrote, to hear the whole story you will be amazed.

We didn't see each other for a long time but once in awhile he will write me stuff like this. I always feel sad to think that he might have problem in his minds and what cause him to be so.

Agreed with both Vbroker and Zeus

Either he is trying too hard - in which case, you would laugh it off, or he is a really scary freak - in which you stay as far away from him as possible.

If he's an ex the question is why on earth would he write that? That's no cute, romantic love letter. I have had the unfortunate experience of a "psycho ex" who would not only constantly call me and hang up (which wasn't that bad) but would also target MY PARENTS with harassing calls as well. That was brutal. This went on for months. I would say do the best you can to ignore him and hope that he tires of you and the pursuit at some point. And yes, DO stay away from him; don't agree to meet him since there seems to be no point in that. Better: find yourself another boyfriend. Soon. I'm available.....hehehehe. Just joking. Seriously....good luck.

What's wrong with him..... simple and one word answer.

LOVE

love makes you stupid, incomprehensible and just goofy! If you don't feel the same cut off contact give some space and give time to let feelings move on then in months down the road can try to be friends again if you want.

Good Luck

I'm really glad that I didn't go to see him in his country.. I was almost but my aunt got me stopped and thinking if I'm really sure then obviously I had some doubt in my mind so I stay safe here. Smart her that she didnt say "dont go" otherwise I might be gone... but she asked me back if it's a real feeling or I just gonna do it coz I'm lonely since I got too much spare coz by that time I graduated but didnt work.

Only one doubt its mean you have some doubt then it's not what you should go for. That's what I think.

sounds like true love to me... uh..lol?

Sushi.. sometime I want to hear what other think too but at the end I will always make decision myself... and for this case I already made up my mind but I do want him to stop being like this, he's cute and smart... why he has to do this??

Paul : I always be friend with my ex but what his guy trying to do is not called love... I dont think so. Why would I dont want someone that love me so so so much... there are something that make me doubt if it's real.

The whole story is too long to be posted but I can tell you briefly, he said that he graduated from Haward, working for Bank of America as a VP one in corporate side. He used to work for NaSa and once he was shot but survived, once he was working on a high risky task in Antarctic and then he was stucked somewhere under snow for weeks but finally he has been rescued. (He also told me that he will go to finish the last task which is the most risky one and then I didnt received any email from him for a week but one day I received email from someone who claim that she's a secy to him (sent me an email from my ex's addy)

He told me he will come to see me here again many time but always postponed for some various reason, one was becoz he was shot etc... this is crazy, Im sad, you know... why people cant just be what they are...

babyoiy: "...why he has to do this??"

Because he's nuts and has far too much free time on his hands.

babyoiy: "...he said that he graduated from Haward, working for Bank of America as a VP one in corporate side. He used to work for NaSa and once he was shot but survived, once he was working on a high risky task in Antarctic and then he was stucked somewhere under snow for weeks but finally he has been rescued...."

If the guy graduated from the top U.S. university (Harvard) and used to work for NASA chances are he's probably not going to have the time to waste doing what he is doing; esp. with a foreign national. The only snow he was associated with is the snow job of a story he's concocted. And maybe what he is sniffing. In other words, he's full of sh*t. Ignore the loser and soon he'll find someone/thing else to tell his delusional fantasy stories to.

full of ****,, yeah haha ... oopz Harvard... (I normally check spelling before post but this time I missed... stupid!!!!)

and what cause him to be so? Isn't it sad to know that someone have problem like this?

Btw, we've met since April 2004.... now it's July 2007...

Are you sure he's not a TF farang member? Maybe he should become one and join the ranks. He'd be a perfect addition. Hahahahaha. But wait....I'm a TF farang member too....damn. Hehehehehe........

Don't worry about "what caused him to be so" and yes, it is sad but it is his problem and thankfully not yours. Just avoid him and hope he disappears sooner rather than later. That he's been playing this game for 3+ years would appear to strengthen my argument.

Is this the mad one?

Baby... totally with VB Harvard or Howard... you dont' work for Nasa then go to BOA as VP in business side! Nor work in antartic and get stuck in snow for weeks and get shot? Either this guy should have his own movie or it's total crap!

Plus a vp for BOA could fly to bkk every month for the weekend and not even effect his bank account!

Never write love letter to a TF ???hehe

He has the great words but no meeting skills,just return to sender!

Oiy only you know him and can make your mind up,sounds like he is full of false promises and loves to pass his time away writing love letters to you.

Do you ever write one back to him?

Too much use of "I" and "you". And no we or us. Only uses Oiy at the start. Maybe he copies and pastes to send other ladies (just a thought). Anyway, he seems weird with quite an imagination. Only you can make the choice.