I promise with myself that I wouldn't talk about my sad life nor complain about anyone on TF but I got the bad experience lately.Have you ever had an experience about having appointment / dating / seeing someone but that person didn't show up?I HAD... sad but true.. If you ask me "why", so sorry I have no idea.Normally, I don't like to ask people to meet up first.. ok just someone that I like and I really really want to meet and they never let me down. Mostly guys asked to meet me first. They said "I really wanna meet you" or "Can we meet up" etc.Well, after many people asked for it and never show up. I have learnt bit by bit that I shouldn't take their words serious and never believe what they said.I really don't understand... what are in their mind?Is it fun to asked people out and not show up? I can imagine that they are laughing at home... might think or talk with the friends like "Hey, that stupid ***** might go to that place and have seen no one cuz I won't go... hehe"

may be..well well, laugh is good for health... but do you think those person have sick mind? or mental problem? I really want to say Hey Dude, my time is worth, I can do many many things in just one day. Pls, don't waste my time with your stupidy idea. If you wanna have fun or laugh just go to do something else. I'm sure there are a lot amusment things in this world to do. If you have so much time to spend like this just go to see the psychologist to heal your mind.. Is it waste their time too? or It's worth to do cuz see me like that just entertain them?Here the things I want to say... I have been treated like that a lot... I know no one care... I'm not a good looking girl... I'd like to be treated like anyone, I need love and care too and I don't think anyone wanna be treated like that.a**hole and Psycho are not welcome in my life... (quite rude, I know but I don't think I have any reason to be nice with these kind of people)

.. ignore them.. they are just psycho perverts.. they dont show up because they are busy trying to suck their own d**k..!

hmmm good point .. I never get that experience, maybe because I not often to meet up stranger or people who I don't know well... This is life diferrent person and different mind / thought..... don't worry be happy with youself and your life, the right person will come through....think positive and open mind..... have a great weekend kha...hug hug ....

obviously not worth meeting - worse though is if you meet them, get along fine, start seeing them regularly, then find out they've been 2-timing you all along, just when you start believing in them. Don't put too much faith in 'online' relationships.

how about when you meet a friend, but they arrive an hour, or an hour and a half late? Is this acceptable because they still turn up?

i mean Thai friends that constantly are late.

that's just normal in Bangkok - there is 'time', and 'Thai time'...

Ask them to meet you at someplace that is extremely convenient for you (not convenient for them? too bad.). Don't put any appointment with friends off to meet them. Don't make it for a Friday or Saturday night.

Like, meet me for coffee or somtam at the place a block from where I work on Wednesday at 6:30 pm.

So, if they don't show up, then you didn't go out of your way, didn't miss seeing your friends or waste a Friday or Saturday night.

And you just enjoy your coffee or somtam instead of fighting traffic.

It will still suck. But it will suck a lot less.

they are rude.. i would be pissed too ah just ignore them na and have a good weekend ka..

haha, if it was sergio then he is probably still coming, sorry m8

There are tale tell signs whether or not you know the person is keen on meeting you. This is not a 100% guarantee but more or less it should give you an idea how interested is he to meet up with you. There are TF parties, get together, so I think this is a great time to meet up with them/ he or whoever. At least, if he/ they doesn't / don't show up, you still get to meet other members from this site. ;-)

thks everyone.. >> that's why i don't like to go for dating lately..

p'Loburt. >> yes it happened today... someone asked me to see him at Central Pinkroa... I think "are you crazy? I won't go there for sure" then I said if you wanna meet up.. just come to the city.. such as Siam or Victory monument... at 10 pm. He kept sending e-mail back and force like 20 messages to me. Then I asked if he like to meet or not cuz i have work to do. Good that I called to confirm.. he didn't pick up the phone.. so I just didn't go... I went to my office instead. Today isn't bad though. I will hangout with my classmates will get nice time too.

Flying_pig >> yeah those kinda ppl are not worth in .. I spent my time to do something else is better

Green_tea >> thks kha.. that you said I was cute... ok ok i won't say "i'm not good looking" again ooops that word not count na. Put his empty hear to the wall? good idea... I really wanna know what they are thinking. If I were them I wouldn't waste my time to send SMS or Messages or e-mail and ask to meet up with the people that I didn't wanna meet.

Geri >> i haven't join TF party for a while... think i spent a lot of energy there lol.

LOL... I haven't been to any TF party either.

Anyway, just don't trust too much. It's better to meet up with someone for the first time where it is more convenient for both of you... Lots of people and preferably not too late. (I don't know, Call me Conservative but I think 10pm is pretty late).

.... come to think of it, I don't meet up with people I've only met online - not yet. So I guess I am not in any authority to give you an advise. =)

Well I quess it has a lot to do with the fact that its all so easy here on the net. I mean making promises etc etc. It must be really disappointing when a person dont show up - ruins your day for sure. Well all I can say, dont give up, have faith. In life have to still take risks to achieve something. Better luck for the future - cheers! ;-)

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I agree with Loburt that if you feel the need of meeting someone you know from the net for the first time.

Try to make the date to fit your schedule, don't change your schedule or way of life for them e.g. arrange to meet at Paragon if you already planned to go shopping there.

If it sounds like it is so hard to settle on a place or time then don't bother, your date probably doesn't think meeting you worth his/her time.

This person is a total stranger to you (many are weirdos), you have got no reason to make that much effort.

Not sure why some person would make an appointment and then not show up. Buty maybe for the best, maybe the person was not a good person. But dont base all future decisons on one no show appointment. The next appointment could turn out to be a great one.

lol that was funny, .. well it can be like that.. but honestly, if you're those kind of ppl (im not saying its you), then you tend to find that kind of friend... but again, if your friendship is stronger then the word, "lets meet up", i dn't think he or she will turn you down. -if its me how's asking a guy for a meet up (which that will never happend), eventho he's ugly; i dn't think i'll turn him down. you can always be freinds after all.. So what's the big point about faking meeting if you dn't want ot meet them?? to be funny? maybe.. he/she's drunk the day before the meeting date... who knows..