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According to my previous journal... thks for comments ja.. so it's good to take a break for 2 days, now I'm back with a normal feeling. I mean laugh and smile as everyday.Darn, I was in bad mood for the guys only in a couple of days, since Friday. They shouldn't annoy me, but they did.1st Guy, At Metro Mall, underground train walk way, there were only me and a guy who was walking in opposite direction, at the some point I made eye contact... I didn't think anything cuz he was just a small guy with messy hair, and no one there... he called me "E-Aun" = Fatty girl, but in Thai language call someone "E" means you look down that woman. Exception if you are really really really close friend, it's ok. I was so surprised, cuz I didn't know him before.. and I didn't jump to him and said... "be my boyfriend / husband" I think he has mental problem... If I was in another place, I would say "It's none of your business freak!!" but I better keep my mouth shut, in case he was a lunatic.2nd Guy,My friend and I were at Platinum to buy swimming suits and bikini... on the way to that shop, my friend stopped at a shirt shop, she is a big girl, bigger than me, she asked me if I think it had her size there. So I said "Wait!! I will ask the sell person" While I was searching a sell person, I didn't know where she / he was. My friend grabed my hand, "I wanna get away from here!!" I just "What!! What happened?" She told me the guy in that shop look down her... laugh at her, and tried to make people around laugh at her too... She didn't tell me cuz she knew sometimes I have unpredictable mood... I might shout at them and slap or punch that guy face. From that case I might do it... who knows.From 2 cases, made me think how bad I was born in this world... jing jing... so fatty people especially girls have no right to wear cloths? have no right to walk on the street? I tried to reduce my weight it's just not easy for somebody, like me to do it. So what's wrong with that. I reduced my weight by taking some medicine and it changed me to somebody else... I wasn't happy at all... people around me said I should stop that... so I did. I'm back to be fat and happy as I used to be. So... living with happy life should be better. If you don't like to be friend with fatty girl like me that's fine.. who cares but don't said something hurt the other feeling like that. hrrrrrr... well well, I'm feeling better now. after I write it down here... hehe.Wanna hear one more? About TF guys, He broke my heart long time ago, before I met p'Andy. This guy chat with me on MSN and talked on the phone when he was in Thailand. We planed to meet up, but he saw me sign up for the Samed event he just turn out…. Cuz he thought I like p’Ghee, and wanna go there with him, huh!! That was so ridiculous cuz there were 10++ TF people sign up besides, I and p’Ghee never talk more than, “Hi, how are you” baah mai? It was a stupid excuse…He gave me a call, after he said his name and asked if I could remember him then he hung up. Hrrrrrrr… What was wrong with me? But hey think again I didn't do anything wrong... but they are... »ÃÃÊÒ· ¤Ô´ÃÒ¡à»Å×çÊÃç So i use here like my memory tank... hehe one day I might come back to read and laugh about it....  Stupid guys.Better think about karaoke contest.. and bowling games on this Thursday... hehe use bowling pin as their head... Strike !!!!
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According to my previous journal... thks for comments ja.. so it's good to take a break for 2 days, now I'm back with a normal feeling. I mean laugh and smile as everyday.Darn, I was in bad mood for the guys only in a couple of days, since Friday. They shouldn't annoy me, but they did.1st Guy, At Metro Mall, underground train walk way, there were only me and a guy who was walking in opposite direction, at the some point I made eye contact... I didn't think anything cuz he was just a small guy with messy hair, and no one there... he called me "E-Aun" = Fatty girl, but in Thai language call someone "E" means you look down that woman. Exception if you are really really really close friend, it's ok. I was so surprised, cuz I didn't know him before.. and I didn't jump to him and said... "be my boyfriend / husband" I think he has mental problem... If I was in another place, I would say "It's none of your business freak!!" but I better keep my mouth shut, in case he was a lunatic.2nd Guy,My friend and I were at Platinum to buy swimming suits and bikini... on the way to that shop, my friend stopped at a shirt shop, she is a big girl, bigger than me, she asked me if I think it had her size there. So I said "Wait!! I will ask the sell person" While I was searching a sell person, I didn't know where she / he was. My friend grabed my hand, "I wanna get away from here!!" I just "What!! What happened?" She told me the guy in that shop look down her... laugh at her, and tried to make people around laugh at her too... She didn't tell me cuz she knew sometimes I have unpredictable mood... I might shout at them and slap or punch that guy face. From that case I might do it... who knows.From 2 cases, made me think how bad I was born in this world... jing jing... so fatty people especially girls have no right to wear cloths? have no right to walk on the street? I tried to reduce my weight it's just not easy for somebody, like me to do it. So what's wrong with that. I reduced my weight by taking some medicine and it changed me to somebody else... I wasn't happy at all... people around me said I should stop that... so I did. I'm back to be fat and happy as I used to be. So... living with happy life should be better. If you don't like to be friend with fatty girl like me that's fine.. who cares but don't said something hurt the other feeling like that. hrrrrrr... well well, I'm feeling better now. after I write it down here... hehe.Wanna hear one more? About TF guys, He broke my heart long time ago, before I met p'Andy. This guy chat with me on MSN and talked on the phone when he was in Thailand. We planed to meet up, but he saw me sign up for the Samed event he just turn out…. Cuz he thought I like p’Ghee, and wanna go there with him, huh!! That was so ridiculous cuz there were 10++ TF people sign up besides, I and p’Ghee never talk more than, “Hi, how are you” baah mai? It was a stupid excuse…He gave me a call, after he said his name and asked if I could remember him then he hung up. Hrrrrrrr… What was wrong with me? But hey think again I didn't do anything wrong... but they are... »ÃÃÊÒ· ¤Ô´ÃÒ¡à»Å×çÊÃç So i use here like my memory tank... hehe one day I might come back to read and laugh about it....  Stupid guys.Better think about karaoke contest.. and bowling games on this Thursday... hehe use bowling pin as their head... Strike !!!!
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I didnt really read, and I have no idea whats going on, but I know my gut feeling says you are better than whatever it is and you can be above it and not let it bother you again. :D

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people who look down on others are those who normally disrespect themselves.... not happy with themselves

they laugh at others to fool themselves that they are happy...they are NOT

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P'Naung, Next time replied them "PIMP!!!" lol I completely understand you ka. I faced problem like this too when i was a little girl. They called me "Dam tap ped" "Dark like a duck" or "Kao nok na" but I do not care them at all. Be self confident dear :)

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@ Japamerican..

Yeah you are right... and bowling can help... 6 games, will I die? hehe.

@ Wicked,

I always meet one idiot per day... sometimes included myself. :P

@ sweeteyes111

That time I really wanna say "˹ѡÈÕÃÉÃÃÒôҾÕèàËÃäÃ" áµè¡ÅÑÇÃѹà»ç¹¾Ç¡âä¨Ôµ¹èà àŤԴÇèÒà¡çº»Ò¡àÃÒäÇé¡Ô¹¢éÒÇ´Õ¡èÒ ¤¹ÃÂèÒ§¹Ñé¹ÃÔ¤Ùè¤ÇÃ

@ Pjack,

Try "Reductil" 90 baht / capsule, take it 1 capsule every morning, It will stop your brain thinking about food. It works but you have to control your mind to not go insane.

Oh no one know about side effect.

@ funky_house,

So i shouldn't act like them.

@ My teerak,

It's the past honey... talk to you at home na ja.

@ heretic,

thks so much kha... someone might think i'm an agressive person, but I just like to speak out when I see something doesn't seem right.

@ Tukkie,

Thks kha sis... big hug for you too... Y_Y

@ jump up,

No one can bother me again ja... but sometimes if I got that treat in same day it will bring me down.

@ Karnie

Yes, i think he is a psycho.. hehe.

@ p'Sashadog, pinkcandygirl nong Kung and missjira... I'm proud to be myself ja.. self confidence and self esteem dropped sometimes, but.. I still "Be Cool" lol. Good to have you around... to be my friends

@ Dr_Sassy,

Agree with you kha. They laugh at the others to make them feel better...

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The flight attendant invited me on the plane first because he thought i was 'pregnant' and that made my friends tease me about it for years.

But if you calculate throughout 365 days, it would be only small percentage like 15 days that those dog mouths say something that hurts your feeling. But don't let it ruin the rest then. Doesnt worth it !!!

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So stop taking things to your heart if they look down on you its because they don't really know you.

bcool I have talked to you on MSN quite a while ago and even though l had problem to understand you fully,

I don't degrade you or think of you as not good,probably the opposite because I really don't know you enough

to make that observation,and my shape or character isn't what some like either,why worry?

Live your life knowing true friends,and people who have good character don't talk or act in the way you describe.

Just take it easy bcool the world is made of all types and I think you are fine and I'd love to meet you one day

and have a coffee in that busy life you lead,but drinking the coffee has to be at that Snails Pace ok!

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So you say you are fatty but you get sad when others call you fat? All and all, seems you are not at all ok with your own self-image. The best thing to recommend for you seems to be, after all you didn't like to loose weight either according to your journal, is that you would partake to some self-help courses that are about self-confidence and embrasing your own self as you are. If this kind of opening up here on the forums is kind of sel-help fine, but it seems it is not much helping you as so many journals revolve around your own weight and the issues about it. Did you know that there is millions of ppl around the world who are overweight and proud of it. So...chin up and go get some professional help so you can move on and concentrate on other things than this weight.

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You sure that wasn't Afook you saw?

It seems to me that the Thai language has a tendency to be 'to the point' or very direct in the way it describes things. Hearing someone called 'the foreigner', or 'black' before trying to describe them in any other way, might be considered rude in some cultures, so isn't it the same thing with pointing out someone's size (although the behaviour of the guy in the shop was obviously designed just to be rude)?

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Resurrection: yea, the culture is so direct in some parts of Asia that kids might point at you, shout "foreigner" and spit on your shoes. Thats cultural difference for sure...

From foreigner who hears all the time annoying mumbligs of "farang, farang" (or laowai) from children and adults alike when walkiing down sois (or lu).

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Awww....sometime I tell ppl that I want to join Tida-Chang contest and I have to gain a lot more kilos so that they won't talk about my weight anymore. When I show them Im happy with it they seem to shut their mouht quick... but if I look even a bit worried then they will continue talking/teasing me about it. hehe~

Im on diet forever coz I never succeed in it.. LOL

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