How to start this messed up story.. I gonna try to make it short. Its about a woman I knew her well for long time ago. She married with her husband since she was 15 now she is 28 years old. They have 2 kids a boy and a girl 13 and 10 years old.. Their marriage life was ok.. not best not worst. Untill one day a stranger guy came to their life. He's kind of related with a friend of this couple. And then it turned out to be this couple divorced. (actually started this messed up story) I cant believe when I heard that she decided to leave her family, leave a guy who she been with for 13 years, let her kids be with her mother and she go for a guy who she knew him for a month. I didnt say anything about this with her at all. I was busy with my life but I just kept asking her if everything alright between her and that guy. I hate cheating.. unfaithful.. flirting.. etc.. But I didnt say it coz seems like she was in love. hmm hmm hmm Sometime some ppl has to be with someone coz of responsibility so if she said love then let her go. Thats wot I thought.

She seemed happy with that.. Her kids seems ok from wot I have seen. Her ex husband looked ok after awhile. So I didnt have to worry. I was kinda happy to see her happiness. Then last week she came to me and things was well from wot she said.. just her bf been travel with his mother which came back to Thailand for vacation. So I take it as her love life was well as it was. And yesterday she came to me and cry a lot.. and kept saying that he is such a bad bad bad guy... I was just listen.. If she expected me to say something bad about this guy.. sorry sis .. its not my way. I just wonder why u just noticed it.. Im not gonna say that he tried to get u even he knew u married.. I wont blame if u said it was love. But I dont like u to say how bad he is.. It wot u chose.. so u gotta accepted it. U can deny him but u gone for him and wot now? U came to say he is bad.. So after this woman dumped her husband for this guy for a couple of months.. now this guy dumped her for another girl.. and while they both been together.. an ex girlfriend of this guy been together with ex husband of this woman... ok if ur confused.. a girl name 'J' was with a guy name 'A' then J dumped A for '1' so J with 1.. and M.. ex gf of 1 go for A..messed up huh? They could do 4 some.. *sarcastic*

I dont understand wot they were doing..but now after one day J broke up with 1... She fancied that her ex husband will be back to her.. And seems he is ready for that.. thats good for her.. Im so appreciate about this, I may do the same if i were him. But its not that easy.. coz that guy '1' he got HIV.. and J had unprotected sex with him few times.. few times before she knew that he got it.. and silly her that she did it few times after she knew anyway. M, an ex gf of 1.. she been with 1 for over a year then she knew he got it so and she tested for few times already and she didnt get HIV.. I hope she didnt lie.. .. So now I just pray for J that she wont get it either.. She went to test today.. but we gotta wait till tomorrow for the result..

We can just lets hope that it will be fine. So she can back to her family and be together again with her ex husband and kids. I kinda believe now that they (J and A) are soulmate.. as they were seperated once before.. it was about 3-6 months and then they back to be together for 13 years and then seperated again for few months and now.. they gonna be together again. Wot I see from this story is.. this woman already found the right one for her. He is ready to forgive her and thats really wonderful.. She said she aint feel love her husband anymore but I dont know wot she try to do.. as she openly act that she want him back. I hope its just her responsibility for her kids. I hope she wont **** it up again.. I hope she is really ready to be good. I cant blame her as I know she hurt enough but I dont want her to be selfish and hurt her husband again and again.. I just said to her.. 'make sure u wont hurt him again.'

Now lets hope she didnt get HIV and willing to be faithful with her sweet husband forever.. She is good luck that she met someone who really love and care about her as he came over suddenly when he knew that she needed some company. Wot I wanted to say now is.. Dont throw it away again.. I love u sista.. I wish u all the best but its ur life. U can choose to be everything.. I can give u some support but your life is only in ur hand.. U wont be that lucky all the time.. So be good.

** My last journal entry is really helpful for vote stuff as I tried it tonite... its so damn fast**

ps: Sorry I wrote too long again...

This is one messed up story. cheating, diseases, crying, etc. its like jerry springer show all over again. Good luck to this girl A or J or whatever her letter is. =) I am confused. Good luck to her, hope she doesn't have disease.

I think it was J with the lead piping in the bathroom. I know it looks like A in the bedroom without a condom but that, i think,1 was aimed to mislead lead us.

My guess, of course, is that it will all end in tears in due course.

does A know that J could have HIV??? :S

im not sure if im makin sense now

ps. too long ...should be 2 parts

pps. did u name them A & J after AJ? haha

What a complicated story Oiy...feeling better being single now! :-)

Eminem.. If u aint show up.. no one know..

Mike : Yeah I hope so.. J is a girl and A is a guy.. sorry to confused u lolz

Robbie : haha thx.. Im so glad to see u here.. *melts* muwahaha

Vampire : A knew but he dare anyway.. that another messy..

Boecky : Its real, true story..tomorrow 7 pm.. we will know *prays*

Poul : Yeah I just cant believe how dare..

nicehandsomeman : oh wot a nick! I dont blame her at all but I hate when she came to say that a guy that she said she loved him is bad.. why just now?? .. I understand.. Love is a feeling and cant force so if she loose it then let her go but just dont blame anyone but accepted wot other decided just like when she leave her husband for that guy.. and actually i dont care.. all i care is hiv...

Ghee : a lot in thailand?? that scared me now.. well i just wonder coz they already know this but they dare.. brave or silly eh?

being foolish.. Im a fool one too but I dont know how fool I can be till my turn.. its a life.. that wot i can say.. *prays*

Nong Oiy,

It was a good story to teach us to be aware:)))))))

Sometimes we are not foolish at all but we are the victims:))

I hope she will pass the HIV test today.

*prays*

P'Ying

babyioy......thats some messed up story girl....but i hope it works out for all concerned.

Well, statistics show that MOST married people get an itch at some point to have a fling with a person who is not their spouse. It happens and more often than we would like to admit. But at least this story seems to have a happy ending (HIV results pending) and forgiving is part of love too.

I wish them all the best!

**** i m kinda late for this ... but my god what a story!!!!

yeah i believe that what is meant to be meant to be.. like this couple.. so will mine hahaha (hope u know what i mean)

anyway i have no wonder why sometimes TEMPTATION gets over us? it happened to me too.. so im not gonna blame her or anyone.. ppl always deserve a second change but thats all...

maybe u havent seen the movie.. "unfaithful" and "closer" yeah.. this reminds me of these films..

thanks for reading.. its quiet long.. Im glad u all be patience enough to read..

May : i have seen both unfaithful and closer.. I appreciate if they can be together again.. I respect word "love" so much.. I bet u know.. I didnt blame her but i afraid now that she will hurt her husband again..

oh one more for May.. yeah what is meant to be meant to be..

like the Prince Charles and Camilla ... wot a life seperated for ages (20-30 years not sure) and finally be together again...