Being mistress

Mistress which means

?A woman with whom a man has a usually long-term extramarital sexual relationship, often one in which he provides financial support?

Today an internet friend phoned me and told she has been being mistress for 5 years. A man said love but could not be with her as he already had a wife. He said his wife and him, they don?t have any good relationship, and they got marriage for some purposes. They have kids. He said his wife is not really good woman; he is there for his kids only. He does not want to hurt them.

He said his wife always hurt his feeling by doing something bad; never take care of children, spent a lot of money on something stupid(like drug ),never worked, never do housework , and she does not good in bed.(some information he said she has proved them and found those are true)

He said, with my internet friend, he could find everything he wants in his life. A nice lady, smart, honest, loving, good hart, good looking and she also love children.

My internet friend, she knew since they met that he already married, she said she could not stop herself falling for him. She never ever loves any one like this. She never told his wife about the secret relationship as she said "she is not a strong woman ,she could die without him ". She wants to keep this relationship even she knows that they will never been together like a married couple. She is a good mistress still and takes care of him very well.

I met them once (I did not know about this story).I was thinking they were very nice couple and that guy seems to love her so much. They always hold each other hands. That guy always pays attention on her and takes care of her so nice.As I know he also takes care of her family.Everything she told me about him I could see that he may be do it better than some men treat their wives.

What if they both are in love but they just met so late?

Maybe, his parents forced him to marry his present wife? (Asian parents can do).

Or maybe those words were made up by her man  ?

What should she do?

Rabeabrat Pongpanish (ÃÃàºÕºÃѵ¹ì ¾§Éì¾Ò¹Ôª), she can answer this question

ask her at hi5

http://banthonpanyacafe.hi5.com/friend/164899287--rabeabrat--Profile-html

no need to think for her, she has the answer in her mind already...which one does she choose happiness or moral.

===> Maybe, his parents forced him to marry his present wife? (Asian parents can do).

SCREW EM BIG TIME!

same old story...different day...ain't love great?

To me it sounds like he is making up the story and I say that for a couple of reasons. Firstly, if his wife is that bad why doesn't he get a divorce? Secondly, if he loves your friend why doesn't he get a divorce so that they can be together without have to sneaking around? If it was my friend, I would tell her to dump him (or at the very least, give him the choice between her and his wife).

I smell something fishy....

nothing in my mind but bullshit...an old joke that smart girls wont buy...aint telling that ur friend is stupid...but its easy to say that his wife is like this and that to her..in the end..she holds the marriage paper and when he dies..she gets everything...

oh yeah...and if he screams yr friend's name at night...still he's making love to his wife...

wakie ..wakie ??????????????????

not to offend u or your friend..

but ive seen old perverts holding Nana girls' hands...........

love ?????????

je ne sais pas !!!

smart girls here, i agree !!!!

I told her just leave him but she now is blinded with something she called it love

I talked to her already ... I put it here for some reasons ..

"As I know he also takes care of her family."

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That's why she couldn't leave him and tried to find whatever reason to stay in this kind of bullshit relationship, just my 2 cents.

if a man love 2 women, he doesn't love one enough..

Perhaps - if a women loves a married man, she doesn't love herself enough.

it begs the question - is it the same if he just has sex with other women once in a while or infrequently? or does engaging in a love affair actually constitute a more serious infidelity?

Relationships are extremely difficult when children are involved and it depends what age the children are to how long the mistress is happy to wait.

Although I didn't have a mistress I had the experience of knowing that my love was dead for my first wife and waited 5 yrs until my children all had

grown old enough to understand and left school to begin their careers.

If the mistress of this man has the patience to wait,whats wrong with that?

Presuming the information that his wife knows is correct.

What's the term? Mia Noi

no comment.......

but will u clue ur her in. to read what those r thinking abt her term?

Will you show her, that her story is public here?

It is very common i Thailand i know few girls and ladies that are wifes and also Mistresses (mia nois not the spanking kind i like) it different reasons

One is a wife and she and the husband is hi so mak and can not divorce it would damage the work.

Another girl in her 30 can not divorce because of her parents so she and him have different people on the side

If anybody know the other kind of Mistress please let me know

If she's happy... no need to change anything.

If she's not happy... dump him.

oh Faye, I think that this is really about a young lady who works as a university professor and on obtaining her Phd........

Not only she's very busy for being a uni professor and also make her phd sh!t, she's very kind enough to post about her 'friend' on the internet too. So kind...