What would you do if you found out  that your BF is married to a woman in his country? - Break up with him???- Cut His Ba** ????       hmmm... I dont know... what do you think??

Certainly #1

On #2, ah, I'm rather biased because I'm quite fond of mine but I don't think it's a good idea.

must go for 1st...

why lower yourself to be as 2nd...

Are you asking for advice? has Dave been hiding things from you?lol.

But I guess cutting his jacobs off is the quickest way to handle the problem, just be 100% sure before you do it.

If their relation is still healthy (if don't count that guy has new gals for exciting thing) I will move on...he is just my bf but he is her husband

btw...I hear many times that army guy got married (without love) because want more benefit from military.

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one classy sentence... "we need to talk" then YOU choose what is best for you base on reasonable solution.

imback [ 14 February 2010 | 12:07AM ]

btw...I hear many times that army guy got married (without love) because want more benefit from military.

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That is what he wants you to believe.

Anyway, with or without love that is not a problem. If he is married, he is married. Period. If a man cheated on his wife, he will cheat on you too.

Get over the person, and move on.

I though everyone on TF had a wife or husband in their own country?

I mean, some army guy get married by marriage agency cause want more benefit from military...I just speak from something I have heard but didnt convince you to believe that he might got married from that reason, you need to talk to him before make a decision. Trust yourself not TFer.

he told me he was divorcing the camel...

......links to an old Arab saying: "better to go home to a camel than to 4 wives"

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Maried and together or married and separated, big difference, but if he is living with her then your relationship is based on lies and is worthless!

Second option. Put them in his mouth. Take photos and send them to his wife.

it depends..but i guess better find out now than too late ;-)

in my case, i chose to move on without finding the reason (i know its easy to say but totally worth it..i say it from my own experience tho) good luck na ja :-)

if you are not the only one, why do you wanna be with him?

Besides, I think his wife suffers enough being with him, so I wouldn't wanna put even worse situation on her.

Good luck.

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(I though everyone on TF had a wife or husband in their own country?)

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shortyg ---------------- Married and still together ja... but still This girl dont wanan break up. Coz she love him so much, she feel like she can't live without him... she think that she can take this man from his wife...lol...

She's the one that i know.(but not so well) and everybody worry about her, but she never listen.

But her life-style is really really good, she got her Condo, She got her car, She got money to afford anything,,

so we dont know.. that Shes love the guy or love his Money. but since she found out about his married life, she feel really sad. but ,Still.. Not gonna break Up.....

HNW------------------------ hahah.. This is good idea...

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no question about it break up;

he should have been honest long ago.

how cam you truat later ......when this basic trust is never recognised?

Better die a little now...than a lifetime of pain

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haha, Unny, you were giving me death stares when I took too much of your fruit, I dread to think what you would do if someone reeeeally pissed you off.lol

@Teddy.... Hahahah... BCoz That is my Jackfruit.. Hehehhe....... Ok next time i will let ya eat 2 pcs then. Hehehheh...