THE REASON WHY I START THIS TOPIC IS BECAUSE OF 2 FRIENDS OF MINE JUST BREAK UP WITH THEIR MAN IN NEARLY TIME. I MEAN THEY ARE GOING TO DIVORCE SOON. AND THE REASON IS MEN MEET NEW GIRLS. . IS THIS FAIR? I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO SAY TO COMFORT THEM AS THEY IT FEEL. I FEEL SORRY FOR THEM. I CAN SAY IF I WERE THEM I WILL TRY TO MOVE ON AND NOT LOOK BACK . . BUT AS THIS NEVER HAPPEN TO ME BEFORE .. SO I CAN ONLY SAY...

Nothing you can do, or say to comfort them if they are really hurting.

We have a saying, "Time heals wounds."

Its fair because girls can meet new guys too.

**** happens - deal with it ......

I am very good at making broken hearted girls feel better.

The fact that there's two of them, means I'll try even harder. Send 'em over.

Well may be you can only to encourage your friends to love themselves. Let try to invite them to go to Suan Moke at BKK

http://www.thailandfriends.com/showthread.php/46706-Buddhadasa-Indapanno-Archives-หอจดหมายเหตุพุทธทาส-อินทปัญโญ

When they've a clear mind and find their own happiness & pride as a singled lady, they can go on with their confident and they can create their own life. May be they wanna have new serious relationship or no string attached one but they'll be wiser.

Thank you for all the comments

@ andy: I think its not easy for them to get new guys as now they are afraid to fall in love again.

@ alan: I like what you said : **** happens-deal with it

@ English Bob ... shall I send them to you? lol just kidding

@ Sasie: I will tell my friends about this na ka

Yes. Send them. Not kidding.

Tell them, 'When girls go Caucasian, they don't go back to Asian.'

Tell them' date=' 'When girls go Caucasian, they don't go back to Asian.'[/quote']

Not true..,

My brother will divorce soon , he had new girl in Pattaya Now his parent and wife family go there for meet and help them, but actually my brother dont live his wife already...feel sad but so?

Brother need new girl, but we love his wife more...who decide it ?

the marriage is like a labyrinth, you know the entrance but you are not sure to find the exit.

@ Max: that's sound not good for the married life . .

@ Khanomkrok: I think he doesn't need new girl but he just wants a new girl. You still have right to love his wife coz she did nothing wrong. and I am sure that your brother will not stop at the girl he met at pattaya . . .this will happen again and again . .

umm... I know All girl in Pattaya ar very...very beutiful and nice. I think i will lost his wife soon . We just try them back to slept same room in house.

umm.. for my opinion I think you should let her go . . as I think your brother already hurt her enough . .

@ Max: that's sound not good for the married life . .

@ Khanomkrok: I think he doesn't need new girl but he just wants a new girl. You still have right to love his wife coz she did nothing wrong. and I am sure that your brother will not stop at the girl he met at pattaya . . .this will happen again and again . .

exactly how is it.

my brother is a butterfly?

Once either one cheats on the other, there is no getting the trust back, and the relationship is over. To think that the one that cheated will never do it again is only fooling yourself. The chance of it never happening again is pretty remote. It's not worth going though the pain, and suffering to convince yourself it will never happen again with that person. That is the biggest lie you could convince yourself to believe, because it will happen again. Get over it, and move on without looking back.

Main thing is to think about "why this happens ?" .... Did she/he choose the wrong one? Did she/he give him/her all what he/she needs? Is what he/she needs "normal"? Same questions about own needs...

Needs should be considered from everyday life threw "culture and philosophy" to bedlife, threw character or habits and so on. The topic is to avoid failing the next relationship, and not to complain about the past.

About man: some always search new girls even if they have the perfect one at home! The purpose is the new "conquest". This is really wrong but they are like sick in that matter. Everybody must develop a good radar to detect immediately this really bad way of life...

Most of man, and woman, if they found the right one, will never more "butterflying", if their needs are fullfilled. So the question is: is his/her needs reasonable, and can I fulfill them, and is the return for my needs the same...

@Sweetie - "Nothing is permanent in this wicked world, not even our troubles." — Charlie Chaplin.

Then it means that all happiness or sadness won't last forever.

Just be there to listen when they need it & encourage them to pick themselves up & move on.

This is a good time for them to concentrate on themselves & do things they've may have wanted to do but previously couldn't.

& remind them of all that "When one door closes, another one opens" & "A new chapter in the book of life" stuff good luck!

Just be there to listen when they need it & encourage them to pick themselves up & move on.

This is a good time for them to concentrate on themselves & do things they've may have wanted to do but previously couldn't.

& remind them of all that "When one door closes' date=' another one opens" & "A new chapter in the book of life" stuff good luck![/quote']

I like it and it's very true