hi...

how do we go from liking someone a lot to feel nothinging at all?

and

how do we act like we don't like someone at all when in fact we like that person a lot?

jane

hmmm i am having that kind of problem too??? who should i turn to now?? when you are dealing with the same thing??? damnnnn

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Hiding things from your heart is never a good thing...Time heals all wounds, and makes them worse too!

I agree with you Indman. Hiding things from your heart is not a good thing. If something feels good in your heart you should go with it, not conceal it.

"how do we go from liking someone a lot to feel nothinging at all?......

stop thinking about it....stay present to the fact u have that feeling and don't try and shift it or wrestle with it.........just accept that u like them a lot......ur acceptance will give u the peace and rid u of any torment that maybe going on......remember......don't wrestle it.....accept it!

"how do we act like we don't like someone at all when in fact we like that person a lot?

....don't act....this is ur heart and acting will cause all sorts of torment 4 u....once again...accept u like them a lot...then it goes away....dosn't mean u have to be with them......another way to really let it all go in both cases is to tell them......be straight about what's going on and that let's it go for u....u get to move on......

U can't fix your feelings....they happened before u came to the place u r now.

U r not ur feelings...u have them but they are not u....same with emotions

Hey I'm a doctor...u can tell me these things...hahaha!

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I've said enough....I'll get back to my acting......

That is true Jeremy..

But there is many things to consider..

If you are falling in love with somebody, and go with your heart and tell it right away, the outcome will probably be that this person is running away. Feelings need some time to mature..

how do we act like we don't like someone at all when in fact we like that person a lot?

In this case I would think that you are afraid of beeing turned down, and that makes you frustrated.. So you protect your self by being "cold"..

But I am no doctor, and just woke up..

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you guys...

actually...my questions started from..two person appreciate each other a lot...

but it just...seems to be impossible to move further...

P:Jane got it.......ok....use ur choices.....u have to choose the future one way or another.....I choose to be with him/her........or I choose not to be with him/her.......if u choose not.....doesn't mean those feeling things will go away....just accept those........there is another way.....I have a magic wand....tell me who it is and I'll wave it....fixes everything.........just call me the mother of all fairies........

I go through the first one with myself all the time, as for the other one, i'm not sure yet.

"how do we go from liking someone a lot to feel nothinging at all?" ...Well I guess human heart is the ficklest thing ever created. I'd rather put my bet on a 3 legged-horse with a 400 pound jockey who is blind at the races any day!

As for "how do we act like we don't like someone at all when in fact we like that person a lot?" ...easy peasy baby...WE DON'T..affection is never wasted ; )

CHeers