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Well, I am very curious..... I mean about --->>> a word "Fair" ... What is Fair or Unfair <to yourself & your Partner/hubby> when you decided to Part for Good. OK... 2 cases 1> Being Parted from your hubby There is nothing much to discuss on here as you have a lawyer to think for ya. But No. 2 is very interesting.. 2> Being Parted from your long term Partner I am talking 5 years or more.... what a woman deserves after a break up??? As we were living a couple lives for such a long time ... Some Women gave up work and loads of life's opportunities and so many thing else. We <women> are totally very devoted to our partner. But when things didn?t work out and its time to part..... What we should do to be able to be fair to our ex-partner and to yourself....???? What we should do to be able to keep our good-relationship as friends???? What we should do to avoid being a selfish-git who tries to rip him off??? What we should do not to be too self-centred??? What we should do not to feel that we are being taken advantage of and taking advantage of??? My Advice is --- >>> MmMmmmmm Well, I think as when you were together. It?s the 2 of You who were being together. So, it?s the 2 of you who know best what is fair and what is not!! So, don?t let anyone else tell you what to do or what not to do. You Know BEST as you were the one who was living in the relationship not them!! Do listen to your own Heart!! The best way is To SIT and TALK!! Find out the solution for both of you and then try your best to compromise and to be Fair to the other side... BE HONEST, BE FAIR, BE KIND to each other?. Always do Remember, ONCE in your life time, you were truly LOVED and kept very HAPPY being with that person. ~*Relationship*~ .... Not easy eh?? Only from my personal experiences alone?. If you asked me.... Would you like to be in a committed relationship again? Khun B Says ---->>> Yes, I would never ask for something otherwise... really... Yes, I would do it again and again and agian.... really.. Yes, I would be devoted, loyal, honest, and totally lost myself to that special person again & again & again?. really? If you asked me ... if you could turn back time, would you fix anything to make it better or to make it survived??? KhuN B Says --->> Nope... its best as it was... I was Once LOVED and I am still LOVED. Nope... as I do believe --->>> Thing happens for a good reason. Nope... as for me --->>> Life Goes On --- >>> No Go Backward, ONLY Go forward!! eXTRa of BiseX fOr all of those women who are currently being Parted from their Partner. <WinK*WinK*WinK*WinK> If you are lost and confused, I wish you girls find your way back very soon. If you are not happy being parted, I wish you find your happiness back very soon. ~* Good Luck, Enjoy your Freedom & Be very Happy*~ ~*KhuN B*~

- Deal Breakers - Everybody is different, many people are able to tolerate and are able to forgive the flaw in relationships more than the others. Sometimes you have to say enough IS enough. Where is your limitation? or do you think you can change a person and that you can help him or her to be a better person? What do you think are relationship deal breakers? - Physical Abuse = Either your boyfriend or your girlfriend hit you and hurt you, assult you or injure bodily harming you psychically. A ***** slap counts. this also include domestic violent and rape. - Mental Abuse = To you and people around you. everything is your fault, you are always wrong, what you think and your feelings are somehow insignificant. He/she goes from hot or cold ,walking on eggshells. You are 'afraid' of your partner. - Infidelity = Both emotionally and sexually infidelity. Cheating boyfriend or girlfriend/ unfaithfulness spouses. adultery, extra marital affairs. secret lovers. even to emotionally involved in online relationships. - Drugs & Alcohol Abuse = Alcoholism, drugs addicted. They only tell that they love you when they are intoxicated. - Financially Abuse = Stealing, financially undependable/ financially depending, shopaholic, Broke, addicted to gambling, jobless ,high in debt. Etc. ???

:shock: I broke up with an ex sometime ago.. the break up was rather upsetting, not because I was breaking up with her, but because of what she did afterwards. First she appeared at my door threatening to kill herself.. And after 4 security guards calmed her down.. I finally agreed to talk to her in my condo.. BAD idea.. So after explaining the reasons for breaking up etc.. over an hour later I suggested it was time for her to go.. She wouldn't budge.. 2 hours later I'm kinda tired of asking so I physcially try and move her.. i am trying to pull her out of my flat, she just wasn't going anywhere. The girl I knew dissapeared and some crazed lunatic took her place.. Getting her out was like trying to force a cat to take a bath.. She was clinging to door frames, throwing **** everywhere.. Insane ****. Sadly I had to carry her out of the building kicking and screaming... Nightmare! Anyone had a similar experience?