MikeAussieGuy Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 At a party last week I was complimented by a beautiful woman as the only guy for months that didnt ask ask to go to bed with her after meeting her. When I said I wasnt so hard up for a screw to meet her and within 5 minutes of doing so ask her to go to bed, she then asked me what was wrong with me, what was wrong with her, and as I didnt try to get into her knickers I must be gay. When I remarked she had just complimented me for not trying to jump her bones within 5 minutes of meeting her and why now was she was asking why I didnt ask her to, she said any guy that doesnt want to screw her must be gay. With that I walked away, there was no answer other than a smart ass comment I could make, so I decided to just laugh at her and walk away. When she saw me talking to other women, would you believe she came over and asked me to spend the night with her, in front of the group I was talking to, which by the way I declined. When I remarked for her to do this in front of everyone she must be so insecure, and if I was about to bust my crotch by being so horny she would be the last woman I would have sex with, she got angry and said the only reason I refused her was to make a big shot of myself. Go figure!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robbie36 Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 Well I can give you an answer so simple it is probably right. Thai culture is that you either shag random strangers (hence all the massage parlors) or you shag someone you are hoping will become your life partner. In western culture most people shag their friends. Incidentally I am not judging anyone - as far as I am concerned anyone can shag anyone so long as you are shagging each other for the same reason. That is probably why you declined the offer (or maybe it was because she was a dog). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 yep, what r36 said. even shorter version: different rulebooks. i find thai culture to require.... um... a significant amount of adaptation... the random strangers aspect certainly is popular in western culture as well, at least i've heard about it in my bible study group. basically mike you didnt didnt intend to but you insulted her. she'll get over it. if her whole life is based on the assumption that every guy needs to shag her, she'll face some much harsher realities in the not too distant future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robbie36 Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 Strangely enough the term 'gik' translates intop english as 'f*ck friend' when if you ask a Thai about their 'giks' they will often say 'he is just my gik - not my friend. If he was my friend I wouldnt shag him'. Certainly from a western point of you, that value seems strange but, all things considered, I can live with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JayB Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 How Can A Man Win! He can't..so... Give Up and Be a Man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LUNATICFRINGE Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 "How can a man win?" By "win" were you trying to do what was best for you or what you thought would work best with her? In this very particular situation, I think walking away was the first best action tactic because it does not seem you were trying to "win." She was left wallowing in her own vanity. At this point you were clearly on top. As you noticed-- she felt compelled to approach you again in front of other girls. At this point you were the "unmoved mover"--- tactically, an enviable position. You took the hill. But perhaps the second comment "if I was about to bust my crotch by being so horny she would be the last woman I would have sex with..." [in front of the others?] refueled her vanity and arrogance. You lost the high ground then sustained another cheap shot. Alternative: If in front of others, perhaps to politely and cordially decline would have further isolated her. Was this an office party at the office, or at a client's home? Were you among office colleagues and clients? Somewhere less important? Location may also partially account as to why this happened. Just some thoughts. Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted June 21, 2005 Report Share Posted June 21, 2005 Ris said: this is weird.. she acted like she got a c*ck !! tell her you are not gay.. and if she would like to drop her c*ck first .. then perhaps you will consider spend half of your night with her..Oh boy..!! this is girl has some issue .. :@ AHA!!! post-op ladyboy!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patric Posted October 13, 2005 Report Share Posted October 13, 2005 Well, you can plainly see by ignoring you get responses Rules are different? No! Not really. Girls like that show up at almost every party unless it were a house party where only close friends were invited. I've seen that kind of stuff everywhere I've been. The whole Gik thing. Yes, Thai word for basically F*ck Friends! That would be a difference in culture. Or is it just a translation of what we already have? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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