friends Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 I am sure u guys have any experience about long distance relationship.. I curious What is the biggest problem? such as jealous,miss him/her,...etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hbkbkk Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Out of sight, Out of Mind... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indman Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Mike hit the nail on the head right there Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ngairo Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 I find it very difficult to have good sex......there's just something about real flesh :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 well i had a long distance thing for about 9 months. we met in shanghai and spent about a month together and then i had to come back and attempt to finish school. the only way long distance can work is if you have a plan for making it stop being long distance. if you have a goal then it's do-able (cecilia was/is in shanghai) but if neither of you is willing to move, then leave it alone ("miss albany" lives 3 hours away from new york city but would never move here, and i'd never move to albany, so it was done in about a month. and that's a 3 hour drive.) if it is someone you have actually had the pleasure of waking up nextt to, and you're that far from them waking up alone that can be agonizing. and one of the worst things is the $3000 in airfares i spent in 9 months, but the upside was i have about 120,000 airmiles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SiamHotel Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 .... distance .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SiamHotel Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 ..not counting all those porno tapes.... peheng maaaak LOL 8) I find it very difficult to have good sex......there's just something about real flesh :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaiwickedgirl Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 well i had a long distance thing for about 9 months. we met in shanghai and spent about a month together and then i had to come back and attempt to finish school. the only way long distance can work is if you have a plan for making it stop being long distance. if you have a goal then it's do-able (cecilia was/is in shanghai) but if neither of you is willing to move, then leave it alone ("miss albany" lives 3 hours away from new york city but would never move here, and i'd never move to albany, so it was done in about a month. and that's a 3 hour drive.) if it is someone you have actually had the pleasure of waking up nextt to, and you're that far from them waking up alone that can be agonizing. and one of the worst things is the $3000 in airfares i spent in 9 months, but the upside was i have about 120,000 airmiles. what a cutie this guy is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 oh my god zeus, you got somebody to feel sorry for you with your soppy story wasn't that a plot for "general hospital"? it sounds familiar so where do i send my donation? you poor thing now i am feeling sorry for you also 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bored Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 the problem is when the penis is shorter than the distance. slurms was saying something about reaching half the planet. what about the other half? do we have anybody who can go global? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Long-distance relationship is hard to maintain and it's impossible....but it's not for everyone.When you get in one...both of you have to put effort in it. The phone bill might get expensive, but at the same time you don't get to spend money on things like going out for dinner or movie. With each passing day...however long and empty it might be, it's closer to the day that you will see each other again...no matter how much it sucks. If you really love that special someone, you'd still rather stay in a long-distance relationship with him than not to have him at all. hi rene. i have been here in saudi for 6 years now. ask me about long distance relationships one divorce and a few other relationships later, i am still here but i have my honey now and we are going ok. i spend most my time on the internet cos its cheaper than the phone. i am fairly fortunate that with my job here, i get 3 weeks holiday every 4 months so we get to spend a fair bit of time together. but when we are together, it is fairly intense cos we have lots of time to make up for and we do that intensely 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 true love or two love !! that's biggest problem. I can be patience as long as my guy dont make me feel that he seems gnna changed. I can stop bitchy around for him and ... if i think it just waste my timeI'll turn bitchy again .... Just have fun and always use Condom !!! That's what my sexie Jared told me. I love him !! woohoo~ but now he mad at me again .. :cry: apologize this sis plz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 3 years so far Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KevinInMN Posted October 22, 2004 Report Share Posted October 22, 2004 For me ,,,I think if my partner gives up so early,, it can't help ... That's a BIG problem ,, it's such a bad think for me ,,, :? Winny... Why in the world would ANYONE give up on you??? Just the chance for happiness with you should keep a guy trying. If someone gives up on you early then it is your gain and his loss. Just my two satang Kevin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asiacrystal Posted October 22, 2004 Report Share Posted October 22, 2004 To my dear sweet Winny. As a travel the world since 20 years, not for fun but other purposes. Being involved in many relations(love,friendship,etc) i can tell you that it's a all world of confusions. But...The best can come out. I would like to express much more thinks but i don't like to think about what i'm writhing. From my language to englishe there is a big gap. :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asiacrystal Posted October 22, 2004 Report Share Posted October 22, 2004 :oops: sorry Winny i mess it up, not reading the top of the topic :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 22, 2004 Report Share Posted October 22, 2004 winny, i think you're spot on. i actually did a long distance relationship (new york to shanghai) and this was the problem. things would be going fine and then she'd get nervous and change her mind. it was very stressful, and i didnt deal with it well (filurina, *now* i'm talking about cecilia heheh). i think for it to work, both ppl need to stay committed to teh relationship. *trust* can be a problem in any relatinship but the big problem with long distance is *determination*. gotta BOTH have that and a plan for it to work. For me ,,,I think if my partner gives up so early,, it can't help ... That's a BIG problem ,, it's such a bad thing for me ,,, :? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 24, 2004 Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 as embarrassing as it to be in that situation, i'd say that is true, and still true after you lose that person. I've learned in my lifetime so far that you can't help who you fall for and no matter how hard you try and how much it hurts you everyday that you just wanna be with them or just talk to them you never stop trying to make them happy by the little things you say or do because thats what makes your life worth going on for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 25, 2004 Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 i actually did a long distance relationship (new york to shanghai) and this was the problem. things would be going fine and then she'd get nervous and change her mind. it was very stressful, and i didnt deal with it well (filurina, *now* i'm talking about cecilia heheh). i think for it to work, both ppl need to stay committed to teh relationship. *trust* can be a problem in any relatinship but the big problem with long distance is *determination*. gotta BOTH have that and a plan for it to work. hehe good for u keep it up ok? :wink: Ive had two long relationships so far. First one? I gave up on him (yeah winny its the biggest problem). My fault i know but I cant be the one who worked so hard on our relationship. the guy was too busy for me sometimes like he had to travel to do sport news around the world all the time. Seriously when u have a long-distance relationship with someone, u dont care how much u have to spend just to get close to them. I wouldnt believe how much i have spent on the phone bill , believe i was shocked everytime i see the bill lol The latter, not so bad he moved here but thing wasnt that easy. U know when ur not together sometimes things seem to be so beautiful whenver he/she says seem to be so oh-yeah-dear-i-agree-with-you right. so when ur really together u see more in each other's side, see their nature, know how they really are. Maybe they wouldnt be the person u were thinking he/she was right for you, know what i mean? So ZBH , I absofuckinglutely agree with ya that *determination* is a factor in a relationship no matter how far u live from each other! :wink: for *trust* i think it should be in each other from the beginning so its another factor. I believe I have a determination to wait for someone who I really love cos I know Im always there deep in his heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sponske Posted December 18, 2004 Report Share Posted December 18, 2004 ...Trust! I could wait forever on the one that i love, but can she...wait on me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leaf Posted December 18, 2004 Report Share Posted December 18, 2004 Communication is the basic and foundation of any relationship.... If the person stops responding I guess the relationship is slowly drifting away... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siriya Posted January 5, 2005 Report Share Posted January 5, 2005 Long distance relationship isn't that bitter. Honesty and trust really help and are very important for those who are in LDR. I find LDR very benificial. I have spaces for myself and can devote my times to many other things. I can work over time every day, go shopping, and take naps all days in my apartment on weekends or P.H. I don't have any problem when my boyfriend has to travel too often or be away from home for a month or so. I am used to it and I can live with it. What good iswhen we manage to meet again...I feel like our love is always fresh and very exciting. As I said ealier, trust and honesty are a must for LDR. I am this peaceful because I know when I can meet him, we have a clear plan, I can reach him any time he's needed, and above all, we have daily communication. Best of luck for every long distance couples! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OIC Posted January 5, 2005 Report Share Posted January 5, 2005 1.Missing you badly then......... 2.Feeling lonley then........ 3.Feeling insecure then....... 4.Feeling shaken then...... 5.Secret affair End Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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