Down2Earth Posted December 16, 2004 Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 I know it's not easy, but also not impossible.What do you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garfield Posted December 16, 2004 Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 But very very difficult! First contact and chat are great...but when you meet the person for real..it can go wrong. If the person is as wonderful (or even more wonderful) than you thought....then leaving them behind is very very painful. You are part of each others lives....but living separate lives. It takes a special kind of person to survive that...I tried and failed. Good luck to you...but don't hope for too much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gigabyte Posted December 16, 2004 Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 I know it's not easy, but also not impossible.What do you think? I used to think like you but now I know... I don't even bother trying anymore... Maybe it's my personality but I can't handle a long distance relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbykha Posted December 16, 2004 Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 Well! it's very difficult but if u really like or love someone you have to try to handle it no matter what gonna happen or it's gonna end up with sad or happy you have to take it anyway. So Cheers!!! :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted December 16, 2004 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 Cheers! the worse is yet to come! hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garfield Posted December 16, 2004 Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 Is death or another long-distance relationship. :evil: Or is that the same thing? :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted December 16, 2004 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 It could be the pain in the arse YEAH! Eventho. some ppl kinda like it hehe but i don't think i would like the pain in the arse. I think i can handle a long distance relationship if only I can see the future between me and that person,something like if he is going to move to Thailand and such.Then i think i can handle it for some times like 1-2 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garfield Posted December 16, 2004 Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 Seems like a lifetime! Hoiw about one or two months? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted December 16, 2004 Author Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 Of course 1-2 months is better than 1-2 years! If i can choose, i wouldnt want to wait ever. but what i was saying is that 1-2 years is that i think i can wait for 1-2 years if i have to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gigabyte Posted December 16, 2004 Report Share Posted December 16, 2004 Of course 1-2 months is better than 1-2 years! If i can choose, i wouldnt want to wait ever. but what i was saying is that 1-2 years is that i think i can wait for 1-2 years if i have to. In 2 years, you'll be 2 years older. If after 2 years you find out that it was wrong to wait, then it's nearly 10% of your life that you just wasted. And when you'll realize that, you will be 2 years older and can't go back in the past. You don't have that many '2 years' available in your life... You're still young, but the clock always click forward.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sponske Posted December 18, 2004 Report Share Posted December 18, 2004 I could handle it, no problem, but... In a relationship you are at least with 2, I can say I've tried to be involved with somebody, but she (I think) didn't believe that it would last, so no it's over! I haven't heard from her again, it's a shame... I would do everything for a girl, only this time it had to come from one side only (my side), and that won't work at all.. But I still believe that it can work........! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leaf Posted December 18, 2004 Report Share Posted December 18, 2004 It's very risky to take a long distance relationship because things change... but if the other party is willing to sacrifice and to take a risk I could do the same... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ammy Posted December 18, 2004 Report Share Posted December 18, 2004 better ask urself first if u can cope with loneliness the whole time... was there before... cheers xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted December 18, 2004 Report Share Posted December 18, 2004 hell NO! corny! something wrong here .... i'm going to agree with sprite Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lipp Posted January 2, 2005 Report Share Posted January 2, 2005 I hope that long distance relationship it could work out for me. I like to keep myself busy at work during the day. If I'm bored at night I just hang out with a bunch of my friends or use Internet?talk with my special one from time to time. It?s kinda hard for both of us but I know it will be harder for me to not have that person anymore in my life. As long as I could feel that we both still feel the same I will wait for him just to see him once again. If not I will not let anything to hold him back and I will be happy for him in whatever he want to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justasimple Posted January 2, 2005 Report Share Posted January 2, 2005 its depends on two people and what they think....depends on ur heart, respect and honest.... who will know maybe it would be working or not working but you have a cool exprerience. why dont you take a risk..... if you want to be loved and love you have to take a risk... i think it is a cool exprerience, interesting and exciting too. it is a one test of ur love and how patience u have too. just another way to have love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gigabyte Posted January 2, 2005 Report Share Posted January 2, 2005 It's like going shopping but without money... You can see all the opportunities but you know that you can't buy anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lipp Posted January 2, 2005 Report Share Posted January 2, 2005 It's like going shopping but without money... You can see all the opportunities but you know that you can't buy anything. Bad analogy... If you want your relationship to work out you won't care about anything that you couldn't buy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gigabyte Posted January 2, 2005 Report Share Posted January 2, 2005 It's like going shopping but without money... You can see all the opportunities but you know that you can't buy anything. Bad analogy... If you want your relationship to work out you won't care about anything that you couldn't buy. Well... I guess that I was never involved in a relationship strong enough yet. But hey!!! I remember... I once waited 13 months in Canada for a woman in the Philippines. It worked out for 7 years but now it's all over. I'm not really interested in waiting and waiting for the unknown. I assume for this discussion that if you're waiting for someone, it means that it's the beginning of the relationship and not settled down yet. If you're already established and stable with someone, that's another story of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted January 13, 2005 Author Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 It?s kinda hard for both of us but I know it will be harder for me to not have that person anymore in my life. Exatly how i feel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 I am in a LDR right now. It sux, but the ulternative is to break up. That has been done once already and we hated it. If you can survive LDR you can pretty much survive anything. how about a nuclear holocaust ?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Softie Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 I am in a LDR right now. It sux, but the ulternative is to break up. That has been done once already and we hated it. If you can survive LDR you can pretty much survive anything. how about a nuclear holocaust ?? LoL@CiaranM you are bah!!! My girlfriend did live 12h by bus from BKK and thats to long. sorry but it dident work out. But life go's on, now i am dateing a farang girl, and she is going to Koh Chang... Grrrrrrrrr thats a long distance from me :cry: :cry: :roll: :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 I am in a LDR right now. It sux, but the ulternative is to break up. That has been done once already and we hated it. If you can survive LDR you can pretty much survive anything. how about a nuclear holocaust ?? LoL@CiaranM you are bah!!! : tell me someting i (or all of TF) didn't know already .......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Softie Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 I am in a LDR right now. It sux, but the ulternative is to break up. That has been done once already and we hated it. If you can survive LDR you can pretty much survive anything. how about a nuclear holocaust ?? LoL@CiaranM you are bah!!! : tell me someting i (or all of TF) didn't know already .......... Ting tong????? you are funny!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OIC Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 We can as long as we really love and trust each other and if theres no third party involved!! :roll: Cheers.PP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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