ling_dtua_khaao Posted November 5, 2003 Report Share Posted November 5, 2003 http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_835269.html?menu=news.quirkies http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_778573.html Both these news stories detail penis-chopping incidents in the city of Lam Dong in Vietnam, performed by angry girlfriends on cheating boyfriends. This happens frequently enough in Thailand too that jokes are often made about it, and my dad, a doctor who has lived 20 years in BKK, thinks Thailand is the best place in the world to suffer a penis amputation for any reason because the hospitals have the most experience in reattachment! So for all of you guys dating Thai women, let this stand as a warning to you before you consider jumping in bed with another woman. :exclam: --Ling [Edited on 5/11/2003 by ling_dtua_khaao] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted November 6, 2003 Report Share Posted November 6, 2003 I think i changed my mind about Thailand. bobby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ling_dtua_khaao Posted November 7, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 7, 2003 Oh I'm sure Bobby is just joking, aren't you Bobby? Bobby? Bobby? Where did he go...? Malcolm that's quite a violent sense of justice you have (Hmmm... just thought of something... is penis-chopping over infidelity Thailand's take on sharia?) You're right it usually isn't fair if a guy cheats on his girl (or a girl cheats on her guy), but it's much easier to say "cheating is bad, I'll never do it" than to practice that rule your whole life! Wait until you first get to around the 7 year mark in a relationship with a woman and ask yourself whether you haven't at least been seriously tempted. There's a Marilyn Monroe movie called "The Seven Year Itch"... it was not for nothing that they chose that title. In fact very recent research shows that in a long-term committed relationship men are most likely to have affairs at around the 7 and 20 year marks, and women are most likely to have affairs in the first 5 years. (I imagine the results of the study really only apply in Western countries since that's where it was carried out. I'm not sure the figures would be the same in other cultures.) --Ling [Edited on 7/11/2003 by ling_dtua_khaao] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishyfishy Posted November 14, 2003 Report Share Posted November 14, 2003 Quote Why would men want to jump in bed with another woman when they will have a very nice woman of their own waiting for them at home. I think it is really ridiculous if men go to bed with another woman because it is not fair on their girlfriend or wife, and they deserve to have their penis chopped off if they do sleep with another woman. Malcolm hey , u really mean it ?? hehehehe ......... or u just wanna impress the gals here ? generally i think gals love bad boy.pat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted November 14, 2003 Report Share Posted November 14, 2003 Jesse, I'm cool on this, i think. Just the thought of...well, you know, threw me off a bit. No. i have not been lucky enough to have been involved with a Thai lady, but i have a new found perspective about it!!!! Am I or have i been guilty of cheating or sleeping around with several woman? That's not my way. But just the thought of... should be enough for anyone to remain faithful, no? bobby (I'm still here Ling) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted December 27, 2003 Report Share Posted December 27, 2003 Not that I approve of anyone's filandering ways, but IMO giving the guy the 'Bangkok chop' really should be seen as what it is... Agrevated assault (at least) or attempted murder (at worse). I wonder what everyone's take on this would be if it was a guy beating up his wife for sleeping around..... same same? or different? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted December 28, 2003 Report Share Posted December 28, 2003 Red, Hello to you. I think that we all have to realize that if it hurts, it's probably wrong somehow. Laws can not always apply to situations. How many times does a spouse call the police when they are being beaten just to not press charges? If it's an eye for an eye thing, then a woman would have her vagina sewed closed if she cheated, or something like that. This is a tough topic it seems, no? bobby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cpnhowdy Posted December 28, 2003 Report Share Posted December 28, 2003 I agree Ling about the 7 year itch, after so many years there is bound to be some temptation regardless of whether you are male or female. We are tempted all the time but we should not give in to that temptation. We men shouldnt cheat just because we'll get our willy cut off but because it hurts the one we love and that's something we dont want to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Posted December 28, 2003 Report Share Posted December 28, 2003 Yeah, a bit tough I know, and we all know cheating is a big no-no, but to sever perhaps man's greatest asset.... It's often seen as a joke, but I know how I'd feel if I saw mine floating down the klong, just because Miss Red got a bit of inaccurate information about my nocturnal activities! Y'see, whilst in Bangkok, every Friday night I often go out for a few beers with some expat mates, and a few farangs from another board. We do this in the Sukumvit area (Gullivers soi 5), and we all know what Sukumvit is famous for. Miss Red has accompanied me a few times, but found it quite boring, so now I go alone. Sometimes it's just for a few Heinekens, other times, it's a late one. She doesn't mind, but has told me in the past if I "butterfly" (read: muck up), little Red's on the chopping block while I sleep. Imagine if she gets word from the wrong person, that I've been misbehaving (and I haven't!) and I lose my precious thing..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kapowguy Posted December 28, 2003 Report Share Posted December 28, 2003 Thai women are very protective of their husbands and don't condone any sleeping around. At the same time there is this cultural acceptance of Thai women allowing their husbands to have minor wives, even buying houses for them and maintaining a family. The idea that Thai women are the only ones lopping off ding-dongs is proposterous. It is a universal idea and I'm most certain other nationalities do this. Any man who says he hasn't cheated is a friggin' liar! Men are made with 2 heads and just enough blood in them to make one head work at a time! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TerryMcC Posted January 6, 2004 Report Share Posted January 6, 2004 Well sure men should not cheat. It's rude! However are you saying it's okey for women to do so? (smile) Terry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cool_breeze_37 Posted January 22, 2004 Report Share Posted January 22, 2004 Yeah, people joke around about this but I also agree that it is attempted murder, I think the punishment has to fit the crime and if a lady ever tried to chop my nads up into little chicken nuggets, she better prey I never get my hands on her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted January 22, 2004 Report Share Posted January 22, 2004 Men/women shouldn't cheat, full stop! I guess it doesn't work that way ain't it -John- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kashhh Posted January 25, 2004 Report Share Posted January 25, 2004 ohhh.. cheating? I do cheat only on the poker game, I do believe in marry and I think it 's too much for have more than one girl in one time, I really have no idea how I can handle about that, anyway if someone have any experience how? please tell us. we will thankful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Dude Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 Quote Why would men want to jump in bed with another woman when they will have a very nice woman of their own waiting for them at home. I think it is really ridiculous if men go to bed with another woman because it is not fair on their girlfriend or wife, and they deserve to have their penis chopped off if they do sleep with another woman. Malcolm Theoretically, it is acceptable what Malcolm said, " why would men want to jump in bed with another woman when they will have a very nice woman of their own waiting for them at home, if men go to bed with another woman because it is not fair on their girlfriend or wife". Practically, it may be wrong. What if you are a bit drunk and there is a girl who wants to grab your hand and wants to have a sexual affair with you, then what would you say? I don't think you would say "NO" and it doesn't mean you are cheating or betraying your wife or gf. It just happens without intension and you can't get away with it. I've never seen and heardThai girls chopped off penis because of having sexual affair with others. But they may smash your head with a bottle of beer or punch you hard till you've got a black eyes. Well..some girls will do..some won't. It depends upon the type of gf or wife you've got. Nick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
methedevdas Posted March 6, 2004 Report Share Posted March 6, 2004 well, what can i say! listen! its all about in girl hands! if she is nice and careing! man is not DAMP that he jump over others bed ! if she love her! the way! he likes! he never! lie to her, ! if she! give him the things which he wants! , i dont think so! man cheat the gal .. so its all about you gals! well, its also true that ! NOT ALL THE FIVE FINGERS ARE SAME! so! not all the mens are same! ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ezzzer Posted April 2, 2004 Report Share Posted April 2, 2004 Both men and women will encounter temptations and it's really whether they will resist them or not. Like all women say, men think with their members rather than with their brains and I do agree up to a certain extent and this is definitely true under the bad influence of alcohol. I agree that men should either be single if we want to sleep around or we should just be faithful! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ninjorp Posted April 2, 2004 Report Share Posted April 2, 2004 It's not only men who cheat. My Thai girlfriend not only cheated, but got MARRIED behind my back. Now she ignores me, although I'd still like to be friends, becasue I was RUDE to her when I found out! I was quite satisfied with her, and never had the urge to cheat, but she wanted to get married, which I was unable to do for many reasons at this stage in my life. In a way I don't blame her, I think she was under pressure from her parents, but what bothers me was her cold ability to lie to me looking me right in the eyes, and turn off her emotions instantly in the pursuit of status and financial gain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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