impossible_me Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 well i am not complained about this event,whatever if you stay together before you marry i think it's not bad story or fuckin else ! but when you told someone that you love him/her and your acted that is not coz you are still f**ked with other guys or gals ! Is that your love you give him / her .... :? ? i am just curioust that in foreigner relationship,well while they are in relationship, Are they still ******* with other couple ?, and TFers Would you shag with other after you have gf / bf ? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PattayaDaz Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 sounds controversial......... :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sydneytoby Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 I think it can be good if you all have the right amount of trust and the same ideas. Theres a few ways u can do it though, for example myabe 2 beds side by side and you can watch each other which could be alot of fun. You woudln't need to swap. The thing with couples is that you probably woudln't get as jealous because u know theyr'e together and they know u are too, theres not as many thoughts going through ur head of them stealing ur girl, as much as it may be with a 3some. Or the girl worried about u liking the other girl more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 sydneytoby said: The thing with couples is that you probably woudln't get as jealous because u know theyr'e together and they know u are too, theres not as many thoughts going through ur head of them stealing ur girl, as much as it may be with a 3some. Or the girl worried about u liking the other girl more. come on, give us a break and get real. can you guarantee that once people start shagging with each other, couples or not, that jealousy, possessiveness and other emotions won't come into play? you're opening a pandora's box. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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frankenburner2 Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 Loburt said: sydneytoby said: The thing with couples is that you probably woudln't get as jealous because u know theyr'e together and they know u are too, theres not as many thoughts going through ur head of them stealing ur girl, as much as it may be with a 3some. Or the girl worried about u liking the other girl more. come on, give us a break and get real. can you guarantee that once people start shagging with each other, couples or not, that jealousy, possessiveness and other emotions won't come into play? you're opening a pandora's box. Loburt....**insert random words of a contrary nature here**.....and another thing....**insert random smartass remark here** have a **insert random adjective here** day "insert random...." ...copyright..2005 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 ...insert random name here.... you are banned again :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frankenburner2 Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 i_love_som_tam said: ...insert random name here.... you are banned again :roll: ah crap! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 unbelievable. absolutely un-frigging-believable. :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
impossible_me Posted September 3, 2006 Author Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 well i don't believe that if your couple to shagging of ******* with other guys / gals that take other emotions come also, if you are single you can **** other, guys, gals that is not prob, but if you are in couple and you still all ******* that the hole you have been black hole by yourself! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 no if in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sabaisabai Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 TF gangbang? lawd Nooooo... im shocked :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyper223 Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 Loburt said: come on, give us a break and get real. can you guarantee that once people start shagging with each other, couples or not, that jealousy, possessiveness and other emotions won't come into play? you're opening a pandora's box. Exactly. I was in a conversation with a thai girl recently about sex and marriage, and the ability of a woman to keep a man's interest over time. She was adamant that a man would never need to see another woman, that she would be enough. She said a number of things in defense of this idea, and then mentioned that she was so adventurous and good at sex, that she might even do a threesome. I found this interesting, because of the very reason Loburt brings up. No matter what ones intentions are, seeing one's mate having sex with another person is almost certain to stir up feelings of jealousy. For many/most men, the only reason a man wouldn't think about killing the other man in a "couple-sex/wife-swap" situation, was that he had ceased to care about his wife. A (wife, girlfriend) seeing her man with another woman? Unlikely to produce anything but sorrow in the long term. She'll inevitably percieve that you're giving more attention to, and more interested in the other woman. Sexually or otherwise. Friendly sex is another matter entirely. (but then, friendly sex will usually turn into either the man or the woman thinking of it as more than friends. Eventually). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 For me, there are obvious borderlines when it comes to stepping from "single" to "with a partner". Cheating is not acceptable No, I dont F* other guys if I have a boyfriend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 just say no :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendlyCat Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 don't recommend it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 frankenburner2 said: Loburt....**insert random words of a contrary nature here**.....and another thing....**insert random smartass remark here**have a **insert random adjective here** day "insert random...." ...copyright..2005 Is this why you got banned again? :? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 Dr_Sassy said: frankenburner2 said: Loburt....**insert random words of a contrary nature here**.....and another thing....**insert random smartass remark here**have a **insert random adjective here** day "insert random...." ...copyright..2005 Is this why you got banned again? :? he can't hear you cause he is banned again :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PattayaDaz Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 Dr_Sassy Quote No, I dont F* other guys if I have a boyfriend Errr..... Can I be your boyfriend :?: :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 Dr_Sassy said: frankenburner2 said: Loburt....**insert random words of a contrary nature here**.....and another thing....**insert random smartass remark here**have a **insert random adjective here** day "insert random...." ...copyright..2005 Is this why you got banned again? :? so it would seem :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 i_love_som_tam said: Dr_Sassy said: frankenburner2 said: Loburt....**insert random words of a contrary nature here**.....and another thing....**insert random smartass remark here**have a **insert random adjective here** day "insert random...." ...copyright..2005 Is this why you got banned again? :? so it would seem :shock: seems someone randonly inserted something :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sydneytoby Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 It's difficult to discuss this topic because of very extreme opposing views. It's hard to think that way, or understand people that would do it. Takes alot of open mindedness, and you need certain ideas about sex in order for it to work. Some people get very turned on by sharing, or just watching. Some people are very attached to the traditional views of sex, that it's special, sacred, and shoudln't be taken lightly. My personal viewpoint is that there are 2 kinds of sex, with love and without. You could almost call sharing, an act of love in that you trust the person completely and wish to share your experiences with other peole. Just like a dinner with friends. But with sex. At dinner, you are sharing food and conversation. And with sex..... yeah i guess you can do that also. No matter what happens, ur partner will not love the other guy, and the sex both of you have will be different. You could say it's a mix of the 2 different kinds of sex, into one session? In closing i'll say I coudln't do that, i'd probably get too jealous lol. I just like seeing everything from every view point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sydneytoby Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 yeah i agree, it's like magic tricks with swords and fire. Only do it if u know what the hell ur doing To be honest i don't think I would... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frankenburner2 Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 [quote name="eagle" seems someone randonly inserted something :shock: yup...and now my ass hurts! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haawmmak Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 sydneytoby said: Takes alot of open mindedness, and you need certain ideas about sex in order for it to work. sydneytoby said: there are 2 kinds of sex, with love and without. These were the same arguments used by a mate's wife who wanted me to 'sort her out' privately and with her husband... I wouldn't do it because I was in a relationship and SHE WAS MARRIED TO MY MATE... I was told that I was childish and narrow minded, and that sex can be just sex without and feelings... I still didn't take up her proposal... Not surprisingly only 1 year later her and my mate separated. During the separation my mate, who had only ever been with her sexually until then, had a ride on a mutual friend... suddenly he cheated (even though they were already separated) and the other party was the biggest sl^t in the world (probably partially true ) ... My opinion is, sharing is cheating for people where one party isn't brave enough to say they have had enough, and the other party isn't brave enough to say no... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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